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Dr. Elisabeth Sheff: Attachment Styles, Relationships, and Bonding Preferences | Reloscope #4

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Are you unhappy because you're in a bad relationship, or are you unhappy because you're in a monogamous one? Monogamy tends to be the default in our society, but it's not the only option, nor is it the best for everyone. Identifying our bonding style helps not only to understand your own needs, but how you fit into a relationship, in choosing the right partner, and in realising that you are worthy of love. On this episode of Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Aditi Kutty is joined by Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudin …...more
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Dr. Elisabeth Sheff: Attachment Styles, Relationships, and Bonding Preferences | Reloscope #4
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2022Nov 3
Are you unhappy because you're in a bad relationship, or are you unhappy because you're in a monogamous one? Monogamy tends to be the default in our society, but it's not the only option, nor is it the best for everyone. Identifying our bonding style helps not only to understand your own needs, but how you fit into a relationship, in choosing the right partner, and in realising that you are worthy of love. On this episode of Reloscope: The Relationship Science Insights Podcast, host Aditi Kutty is joined by Dr. Elisabeth Sheff, Dr. Elisabeth “Eli” Sheff is a researcher, expert witness, coach, speaker, and educational consultant. With a PhD in Sociology and certification as a Sexuality Educator from AASECT, Dr. Eli specializes in gender and sexual minority families, consensual non-monogamy, and kink/BDSM. Sheff is the foremost academic expert on polyamorous families with children, and her 25+ year Polyamorous Family Study is the only longitudinal study of poly families with children to date. Dr. Eli has served as faculty at the University of Colorado, the University of Montana, Georgia State University, the University of Tennessee, Oglethorpe, Emory, and the University of Zurich. Dr. Eli joins Aditi to chat about The Bonding Project, a quiz they designed with other experts in the feel that allows us to understand our preferred bonding styles. They delve into how attachment styles and bonding styles intersect, and why there isn't one model for every relationship. You can take quiz yourself here: https://www.bondingproject.com/ . Follow Dr. Elisabeth Sheff’s works via https://elisabethsheff.com/ or connect with her via LinkedIn at   / drelisheff  . Produced by the Relationship Science Labs, a division of LMSL, the Life Management Science Labs. Wardrobe sponsored by AEGENDA. Experience the fusion of art, science, and technology in fashion with AEGENDA. Elevate your wardrobe to new heights of luxury and functionality. Visit www.aegenda.com today. Explore LMSL at https://lifemanagementsciencelabs.com/ and visit https://relationship.lifemanagementsc... for additional information about Relationship Science Labs. #LMSL #LifeManagementScienceLabs #LifeManagementScience #RelationshipScienceLabs #Reloscope Follow us on Social Media to stay updated: YouTube:    / @relationshipsciencelabs   Facebook:   / relationship.science.labs   Instagram:   / relationship.science.labs   Twitter:   / resciencelabs   LinkedIn:   / relationship-science-labs   TikTok:   / relationshipsciencelabs   You can also subscribe and listen to the show on your preferred podcasting platforms: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4By5jqM... Amazon: https://music.amazon.com/podcasts/e8a... iHeart Radio: https://www.iheart.com/podcast/338-re... Podbean: https://relationshipscienceinsights.p... PlayerFM: https://player.fm/series/3401809 Podchaser: https://www.podchaser.com/podcasts/re... Timestamps 00:00 Start 01:22 Have you met Elisabeth Sheff 05:31 Defintion of relationship 09:01 Romantic relationship nowadays vs. a decade ago 13:11 Attachment styles 25:36 Bonding style 28:07 Identify your own attachment and bonding styles 33:54 Summarisation of the "bonding process" 45:31 The bonding project 46:48 How does the test impact a personal devolpment 50:25 Aditi's test results 55:04 How often should you take the test 1:01:07 Conversations between partners that take the test 1:03:49 Audience questions 1:10:59 Open mic

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